Book of Memories for Peter John Macomber

Condolence From Kristina Conner

Thu, 30 Jul 2020 22:41:09 EDT

My condolences to Peter's family. Even though I have not spoken to Peter in thirty-three years, I have thought of him often and have many fond memories of our friendship. We met in 7th grade and dated off and on for six years. I will never forget when he asked me to run off and marry him when I was 18. I knew we wanted different things in life, so I had to turn him down. We went out to dinner about a year later, then we lost touch. I married, then he married. I always wondered where and how he was. He was very talented and could make everyone around him laugh. I am shocked and deeply saddened to hear of his passing. He was a sweet and kind person. My heart goes out to all of you. Remember his smile and his laughter, I do!

Story shared: My friend Pete

Wed, 29 Jul 2020 22:16:46 EDT

I believe I first met Pete my sophomore year of High School. I saw this tall, lumbering figure that I did not recognize walking in the hallway, and I thought he might be a substitute teacher. I was way off. Come to find out this was one favorite teachers Ruth Macombers son. We quickly bonded over our love of Star Wars and became fast friends. This expanded to our love of other Sci Fi and Horror movies and more specifically in the special effects and interests behind the scenes on how they were accomplished. I have been friends with Pete these past 37 years. We have grown up and seen each experience different relationships, personal growth, interests, jobs, and a host of other changes over that time. One of the most obvious ways that Peter excelled was that he was exceptionally creative. He was an artist, a videographer, photographer, and a filmmaker. He ended up making two feature films, In the Darkness Waiting and Black Widows which is available on Amazon to stream. Most also know this but for those that do not, Peter had an exceptionally compassionate and caring nature. When I was going through my first divorce ( yes, I am a slow learner) Pete would call and check up on me almost daily for several months to help me get though that and make sure I was OK. That caring can be seen throughout his lifetime with others he briefly knew to others hes known for long period. He so valued his family. All of us are fallible and have certain issues we wrestle with and Pete was no exception. He may have fallen short at times, but his intentions were always the best. He loved his children immensely and would try to support them, be available, make sacrifices and provide to the best of his ability given his circumstances. Pete lost his father at an early age, so he had a great bond with his mother Ruth and brother Paul. He also spoke to me of how much he looked up to and admired his uncle Steve among others in his extended family. I feel so sorry for your loss. I pray for comfort and peace during this time. Peters passing will never truly leave you, but my hope is that in time, the edges of the hole that you now feel in your heart will heal over. I will miss my friend and brother tremendously. All the history we shared, conversations, stupid thigs we did, inside jokes and shorthand we had, will never be replicated. I recently came across a beautiful quote from Eleanor Roosevelt. She said, Enjoy every minute you have with those you love my dear, for no one can take that joy that has passed away from you. It will be there in your heart to live on when the dark days come. These kinds of events serve as a reminder to tell and show those close to you, that you love them. Try to see those great times and memories through the tears when possible. You are gone way to soon Pete. I love you, I will miss you and I will see again someday!

Condolence From Kathy Harders

Wed, 29 Jul 2020 19:52:17 EDT

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you all didn't need to feel this pain. Keep close to one another and remember it's the memories that will live forever. Rejoice in the love you shared and know an angel is looking down upon you.

Condolence From Chrystique

Wed, 29 Jul 2020 12:33:17 EDT

I am so so sorry for the loss of Pete-much too soon. Praying for everyone. Life is so very short and precious. Hang in there the best you can. Love you guys.

Condolence From Dennis Sternitzky

Mon, 27 Jul 2020 15:49:02 EDT

To the Entire Macomber Family- It is with deep sadness that I express my heartfelt sympathies to all of you. Pete was one of my closest boyhood friends. Though we lost touch over the years, I am filled with the fondest of memories of the many years of friendship. I have prayed and will continue prayers of comfort, peace and blessings over you all. I pray that the joy that comes when you think of him carries you through this time, and for years to come. Love to you all- Dennis

Condolence From Rhonda Whetstone

Mon, 27 Jul 2020 12:02:51 EDT

Alexander, Nicholas, Elizabeth, Ruth, Paul, and the extended family— I want to extend my deepest sympathy to all of you. I know these days are dark and difficult, but God is right there with you, holding you close. Even through the pain, He is reminding you of the smiles and laughter you shared with PJ . . . all the good times, all the happy, sunny days. The world has lost a special person, but his legacy lives on in all he did and through his children. Until the day you are reunited in heaven, may God's peace fill your hearts always and may the happy memories you made together, bring you comfort. Love, prayer and care to all. ~Rhonda Whetstone

Story shared: Memories of happier days

Mon, 27 Jul 2020 11:55:12 EDT

Peter John Macomber was my son-in-law for 25 years, and was hands down, probably the funniest guy I ever knew. He was so quick witted that you missed half of it because it was always coming at you so fast, yet in an almost subtle way.

He was also probably one of the most creative people I ever knew. He had so many talents and when he chose to use them, he shined. He never seemed to quite follow through on any one thing though, which was sad. Like many of us, we just do not ever really reach for the stars, willing to settle for our little corner of the world where we sit and dream, only gazing upward at that elusive stellar goal.

Some of my favorite memories were game nights. Pete had a wide variety of voices and accents he used a lot and his three children picked up on those quickly. Add all the humor to those voices, and the frequent game nights were hilarious.

PJ was also a great cook and loved catering to others tastes and desires. NO ONE will ever make spaghetti sauce as good as his. He truly did simmer it all day. It was a masterpiece!

Whether Pete was making a movie, writing a book, creating fantastical "critters" for his next project, or putting together plans for something new and innovative, he was always happy to share what was happening. And he always asked how things were in my life. He actually cared about others.

Pete was a spiritual man too, something that meant a lot to me. God and prayer were important to him and he was not ashamed to show his love of God.

Peter and I shared a November 12th birthday, along with serial killer Charles Manson and Princess Grace of Monaco.We never failed to wonder how Charlie was celebrating his birthday behind bars.

It is interesting how when you are in the midst of life with people—family, friends, neighbors—you never think of that ending. It seems as if certainly after 25 years, life will just go on and on the same way. We never think of an end to it. Certainly, we never think of this sort of an end to it.

Peter died far too young at 54. He left his children still in their 20s. He left his mother, Ruth, to mourn the death of her youngest son, and Paul, the death of his brother. He left a grandson he will never get to watch grow up.

As is the case with all who leave us, I know the world is diminished a bit by your passing. Those of us who knew you will not soon forget you. You left a lasting impression on us. Although I had not seen you the past couple of years, I will miss you, my birthday buddy. May you rest in peace.

Condolence From Ms. Karen

Sun, 26 Jul 2020 20:08:00 EDT

Dear Ruth and Family, His memories will live with all of us.

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Sun, 26 Jul 2020 17:55:40 EDT

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Sun, 26 Jul 2020 17:55:39 EDT

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Condolence From Sara Wilkinson

Sun, 26 Jul 2020 04:07:25 EDT

I will always remember you accusing me of stealing product, even though I needed it to keep for the company. If I brought something back to the line, you told me I had to keep it. You always had something witty and funny to say to us, even it if a rough, long day. Always our sunshine on a cloudy day. You will be miss, rest in peace

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Sat, 25 Jul 2020 20:11:04 EDT

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Condolence From Chris Meddaugh

Sat, 25 Jul 2020 14:56:46 EDT

I am so very sorry to hear of this. Peter was a wonderful person. Prayers to help ease the pain of your loss and all my love to the whole family.